• January-April 2008
• December 2007 Kinky Christmas
• October 2007 Early Halloween
• October 2007 Master Ed's Birthday
• September 2007 Getting To Know You
• September 2007 Back To School
• August 2007 Birthday Party
• August 2007 Formal Training
• July 2007 Lazy Domme
• June 2007 Sorry, no report available
• April 2007 Surprise Party
• April 2007 Sensory Deprivation
• March 2007 Harem Party
• March 2007 Flogging
• February 2007 Knifeplay
• February 2007 Knifeplay 2
• February 2007 WickedFaire
• January 2007 Master/slave roundtables
• December 2006 Rope Bondage
• December 2006 Rope Bondage #2
• December 2006 Rope Bondage #3
• November 2006 Nan Wise
• November 2006 Nan Wise #2
• October 2006 Suspension
• October 2006 Suspension #2
• September 2006
• August 2006 - Caning
• August 2006 - Caning #2
• July 2006 Improvised BDSM #1
• July 2006 Improvised BDSM #2
• July 2006 Improvised BDSM #3
• June 2006 - New Wing #1
• June 2006 - New Wing #2
• June 2006 - New Wing #3
• May 2006 - Meet the Mistresses
• April 2006 - Liquid Latex
• March 2006 - Mummification
• February 2006 #1- Self-Bondage
• February 2006 #2- Self-Bondage
• January 2006 - Violet Wands
• December 2005
• November 2005 #1 - Waxing
• November 2005 #2 - Waxing

The scene reports haven't kept pace but the parties have been going strong, with growing attendance and a good mix of regulars and newcomers. We've had demos & presentations on topics ranging from Waxing and Mummification to the much-talked-about Knifeplay and Fireplay demos.

Unfortunately between running the store, illness, managing a growing family (with an infant son) and numerous other obligations and demands on my time, updating these scene reports has temporarily fallen by the wayside. I will remedy this by resuming regular reports in April or May.

Upcoming parties will feature Branding, Singletails, Sensory Deprivation, Role Playing, Suspension Bondage, Formal Training and lots more. See our Yahoo group for schedules and details. I also have a few extra-special surprises in the works - not only for the dungeon parties, but also a series of Special Events like the much-anticipated 'Master Of Light' Fetish Photography/Video Workshops...

Master Ed

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Dec 15th Kinky Christmas

The threat of snow didn't stop a couple dozen members from coming out to DFP to celebrate a Kinky Christmas. On arrival, partygoers were treated to the sight of a unique christmas tree in the center of the dungeon - a beautifully decorated slave! He was bound to a cross and covered in layers of red and green medical wrap, lights, garlands, and lots of ornaments attached with clamps and clothespins. He sported a specially made Santa gag (i.e. a mouthful of Santabutt) and a headpiece featuring a bound and gagged angel wielding a crop and a flogger. The cross itself was decorated with special xmas floggers (more on these later) and members were invited to help decorate the 'tree' using the bucketful of clamp-on ornaments at his feet. Kudos and special thanks to TheOtherKaren for her extraordinary christmas decoration - she put a lot of time and effort into her tree and the results were greatly admired by all.

No christmas tree is complete without presents, so all the holiday grab-bag gifts were arranged around the tree. All who brought gifts got one, ranging from stockings filled with 'nice' and 'naughty' treats to canes, vipers, floggers, hosiery, sex toys and other fun stuff. After all the presents were distributed the 'tree' had to come down (after being flogged and caned of course) and judging from the sounds he made, the disassembly was not particularly gentle ;)

My lovely wifeslave joined us a bit late but her sexy elf costume made up for her tardiness. As she was admiring the xmas floggers she looked at one and said 'that one wouldn't hurt'. Oops. Feeling compelled to point out her error, I bent her over the rack and demonstrated just how effective a flogger made of tinsel and beads could be. Her gratifying yelps of pain told me that I'd made my point.

By this time there were Season's Beatings going on all over the dungeon. The moans and cries, the pleas and whimpers, all made for some of the most enjoyable holiday music imaginable. Wanting to add to the harmonies I decided that my little elf must have been naughty, so it was off to the locking jail cell with her for a little attitude adjustment. I blindfolded her, secured her wrists overhead, and worked her over with one old flogger and my newest swivel flogger.

As I led her from the cell afterwards, I observed to one of the Mistresses that my little elf had been naughty but should now be a little better behaved. Mistress K asked her if it was true that she would no longer misbehave and with a coy little smile my slave replied 'Not when I can look forward to punishments like that'. Naturally her sassy attitude earned her further corrections, this time delivered privately in the Medical Suite. I can see that properly disciplining her will be an ongoing project ;)

Everyone who joined us had a great time; as one new subgirl said, 'I came, I enjoyed, and I came again'.

Hope to see all of you at the next party.

Master Ed

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Sept 22nd 2007 Getting To Know You

Instead of a scene report, I’d like to share some of the responses to the party that people posted on our Yahoo group. I was deeply gratified to read these since this is exactly the sort of experience I work hard to provide at our parties.

Master Ed

*****

Hello,

I attended my first DFP Party, and had an amazing experience. This was
such a memorable event on a multitude of levels one of which includes
it being the first time I have ever engaged in any activity in a semi
public setting. I would like to extend a special thank you to those
who guided my first experience with the highest level of attentiveness
one could ask for. I am embracing my emergence into the scene and my
new sense of freedom. This would not have been possible without the
lovely people who belong to this group. Thanks Again!!
PS - to all those who made food for the Shower - excellent!!

-Christine

Dear Christine, thank you for your sweet message. It was only my second visit to a DFP party and I too had an enjoyable experience. Following in Christine's lovely footsteps I would also like to thank the many people I met for the first time who embraced me and made me feel welcome as well as to thank those who I met at the last party and who I enjoyed seeing again and got to know a little better. I look forward to the next gathering as I think this is a delightful group of people to be around. Sincerely, Princess Skye

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Sept 8th 2007 Back To School

Dressing For Pleasure’s ‘Back To School’ party celebrated all the fun of a new school year: pretty little schoolgirls, canings, bratty students, The Monsignor and his heavy bamboo cane, demerits, tests, the harsh Headmistress in her black leather corset, spankings, the “Board Of Education”, severe punishments for any infraction of the strict DFP Private School Rules and lots more.

The night started with all slaves/subs who chose to play being required to take a challenging test on BDSM and related subjects. The class did poorly, and Monsignor and the Headmistress decided that in the interest of academic improvement the ‘students’ needed to be properly motivated. Monsignor announced that all students would receive corporal punishment, one whack for each incorrect answer. The students were ordered to Assume The Position on the bondage horse, and volunteer ‘teachers’ lined up to administer correction. On the 30 question test most students got about 20 wrong, so the disciplinary session took some time.

One especially bratty little schoolgirl had the nerve to illustrate her test form with crude sexually explicit drawings, so she was ordered to report to Monsignor’s private office later for suitably harsh discipline. Seeing how much trouble she had trying to sit down afterwards, I’m sure she’ll remember her lesson for quite some time ;)

All of our ‘teachers’ (i.e. Masters, Mistresses and tops) were given demerit cards to hand out throughout the evening as they saw fit. ‘Students’ were expected to follow the rules, a list of which was shown to all the teachers at the start of the party. Too bad Monsignor didn’t bother to tell the students what all the rules were – they’re expected to know, after all ;)  All infractions had specified punishments. For example:

Bratty behavior = 2 whacks with a ruler;
Failure to show proper gratitude for instruction/correction = 4 strokes with a cane;
Touching Master/Mistress without permission = shackled, restrained and 2 whacks each with ruler, paddle, switch, cane and strap

We had a list of about 3 dozen rules with specified demerits/punishments, and of course teachers were free to give demerits for any reason they wished. All night long there was a steady stream of teachers bringing their students to Monsignor’s office for ‘conferences’, in which it was decided whether the student was guilty (always!) and who would administer the required discipline – Monsignor, Headmistress, Teacher, or some combination.

I’m a huge fan of role-playing and it was great fun to do a big group role-play scene. Everybody who played had a great time and I know we’ll be doing more things like this at future parties.

As always there was tons of play going on, school-themed and otherwise. I was kept quite busy in my office most of the night but from what I saw, everybody had a wonderful time.

See you at the next party,

Master Ed (AKA Monsignor)

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August 25th Birthday party

My lovely wifeslave’s birthday fell a few days after this party so I made this her surprise fetish birthday party. We would both like to thank all of our friends and guests who came to help celebrate, and a special thanks to all who brought generous gifts (you know who you are!).

The evening started with a demonstration of shibari, the Japanese art of rope bondage, presented by Lady Patience. As part of her training we asked her to learn some of this beautiful art form and she did a wonderful job, learning a lot and perfecting a number of techniques in a remarkably short time. I’m sure she’ll be quite an expert very soon! Her presentation was informative and fascinating to watch, and the finished ropework was very impressive.

After Lady Patience’s demo was finished everybody joined in singing Happy Birthday to my slave, with one male sub “encouraged” to sing extra loud by means of a hand-cranked generator attached to his genitals. His cries of pain added a nicely exotic flavor to the traditional birthday song…

Up next for the birthday festivities was the birthday spanking – with a twist ;)  Our slave J was made available for anyone who wished to give a spanking/paddling/whatever. He positioned himself on the spanking horse and a few guests took advantage of the opportunity to lay on a few whacks. Since a lady never gives her age, I told everybody to give the slave 21 smacks, plus as many as they wished for good luck. Not his, of course.

Then it was time to cut the cakes and socialize briefly before the dungeon opened up for all out playtime. There were 2 yummy birthday cakes, one strawberry and the other my favorite: chocolate mousse. I ate more than I should have, but I figured I’d work off the calories later when I gave my slave her birthday beating.

Due to unfortunate babysitter issues we had to leave early, only an hour or two into the party. But in that short time I met some fascinating new members and saw a few good scenes played out. All of the dungeon equipment seemed to be in use, from the locking cell to the interrogation chamber; both St Andrew’s crosses were occupied as were the horses and benches. I’m sorry we couldn’t stay longer – I know we missed a lot of good play.

Hope to see you all in September,

Master Ed

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August 11th  Formal Training

Report coming soon

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“Lazy Domme”

This party began with a special presentation by our good friend Mistress T and her associate Contessa L. Using Mistress T’s houseboy as a subject, they demonstrated one of the most popular fantasies of male subs: being topped by 2 Mistresses at once. The houseboy stood between the two ladies, slowly turning in a circle, as they whipped him in perfect synchronization. Mistress T called this her ‘Lazy Domme’ approach, since the bottom did much of the work. She talked about the many things to keep in mind when 2 Mistresses top a sub at the same time – it’s more complicated than it looks - and also demonstrated some whip techniques.

After Mistress T’s demo the play began. The Medical Suite was busy (as usual) with violet wand scenes going on one after another all night long. Mister Wanderful had his extensive kit with him, my slave j brought another, and new member Master Z brought his. Mister Wanderful and my slave karen introduced a female sub to the pleasures of electroplay, Mister W showed a member couple some of the many wand possibilities, and Master Z bound his female sub to the gyno table for some electrotorture.

Lady A returned after a long absence; she played with one of her subs on the main room’s St. Andrew’s cross, and later in the evening took my slave j into the dreaded Interrogation Chamber for a scene that included restraints, flogging and a vibrating urethral sound.

I heard lots of noise coming from the locking jail cell so I know somebody was having a good time in there. Around the main room I saw a male slave giving foot rubs, a 2 Mistress / 2 sub flogging scene, caning and lots of bondage. In the back, Sir S had his sub t on the 2nd St Andrew’s cross for a scene with paddles, floggers and more; and long-time member j got a pretty severe beating from my slave karen, using his collection of beautiful lashes and whips.

Sir J and his slave arrived a bit late but made up for lost time by playing with their characteristic intensity. Sir J made ingenious use of the spanking bench and swing together to create a cool bondage in which to torment his slave.

I’m glad that all of my dungeon furniture including the new St Andrew’s cross and spanking horse in the back hallway got a good workout at this party. While it’s gratifying to see everything in my dungeon get used, the important part is that all of our guests are enjoying themselves doing it. We had a good turnout including about half a dozen newcomers, and I hope to see all of you at our upcoming events.

Master Ed

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April 21st Surprise Party

This party had a special theme: a surprise Birthday party for Mistress Twist. She arrived with 3 very well-trained slave boys who brought lots of good food and a couple of incredibly yummy birthday cakes. In addition to all the stuff they brought, they provided excellent service to all of our guests. Of course everybody sang “Happy Birthday” but the loudest by far was our gift to Mistress Twist: one of our male subs who was ‘encouraged’ to sing as loudly as possible by means of an electro-trainer attached to his genitals. There was even entertainment – one of Mistress Twist’s houseboys danced for his Mistress and other Dommes.

There were lots of great scenes all night long. Mistress Twist celebrated her birthday by bending one of her slaves over for a hard paddling, and tying another to the vertical frame and using a singletail on him. Our good friend Sir J also demonstrated his singletail skills on his bound and masked slave.

In the Medical Suite there were 2 needle play scenes going on at once – Sir P placed 8 or 10 needles in his sub m; in the other Mistress Roxy inserted 8 needles in one of her subs and then zapped them with a violet wand. And speaking of violet wands, there was a lot of wand play. Mr. Wanderful brought his impressive wand kit and made extensive use of it, my slave j introduced 2 new mistresses to some of the uses of a wand, and other members zapped each other with the available wands including a private wand scene in the Medical Suite.

We had 2 new Mistresses, Trinity and Janelle, attending their first play party. My slave karen and I gave them pointers on flogging and other fun dungeon activities and they had a great time practicing on willing male sub volunteers.
The jail cell was busy this time – at least 3 scenes were played out in there. Judging by the sounds emanating from behind the locking door somebody was having lots of fun :)

Our new spanking horse got some use too. A red-haired Domme bound her male sub to it with some very cool bondage.

My Interrogation Chamber was the site of a preview of the upcoming Wax-O-Rama. My slave karen was joined by 2 Mistresses as they all introduced a male sub to waxing by covering him from head to toe in multicolored wax from special low-temp waxing candles.

There were at least 2 caning scenes: one male top/female bottom on the rack, and Lady A bound her female sub to a post and caned her.

Of course I wasn’t going to miss a chance to play with my gorgeous wifeslave karen. I made her straddle the spanking horse and (naturally) spanked her. Then it was time for flogging. I used the flogger she gave me shortly after we met almost 8 years ago to administer a flogging that made it difficult for her to sit down afterwards.

As Birthday parties go, this one was more fun than most.

We had guests come from as far away as Delaware, Pennsylvania, Manhattan and Queens; from the reports I got it was worth the trip. Thanks to everyone who joined us and I hope to see all of you in May for the Wax-O-Rama on the 5th and our first Slave Auction on the 19th.

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April 07 2007 Sensory Deprivation

This party’s presentation was Sensory Deprivation, a very popular technique – we had a number of people attend just to see the presentation. Assisted as always by my lovely wifeslave karen, I demonstrated the basics of a Sensory Deprivation scene by saran-wrapping her, blindfolding her, and covering her ears with hearing protectors. I explained the physiological and psychological effects of deprivation – focused sensations, endorphins, altered consciousness etc. - while demonstrating on my slave. After we finished up, Karen answered a few questions about how Sensory Deprivation felt from the subject’s viewpoint.

We then assisted Sir P in doing a Sensory Deprivation scene with his sub m. He tied her to the vertical frame and saran-wrapped her with karen’s help while I gave a few pointers on how to maximize the experience. They both enjoyed their scene tremendously, and I spent a while talking to a number of interested partygoers about the techniques and medical background of Sensory Deprivation.

There were lots of other scenes going on too. We put our slave j in an inverted suspension bondage and karen beat him for a while. Mistress R had one of her slaves bound to the St Andrew’s Cross where she flogged, cropped and otherwise tormented him. The Medical Suite and Interrogation Chamber also saw use by some of our first-time visitors. And all around were people enjoying a variety of bondage, discipline, needle play, foot worship and lots more. Unfortunately Karen and I had to leave early so we missed a lot, but the reports I got afterwards made it clear that everyone had a great time.

See you at the next party on April 21st/

Master Ed

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Harem Party

Anybody who thought about coming to the Harem Party but didn’t should be kicking themselves right now. Those of us who attended had an absolutely incredible time. This special event, organized by my wifeslave Karen, was truly a night to remember.

This party was different from our usual play parties in that it was restricted to male dom/female sub couples. All the girls wore ‘harem girl’ outfits, and the guys dressed accordingly. We were treated to (among other things) a dungeon decorated like a sultan’s pleasure tent, a superb 5-course traditional feast brought by beautiful slave girls, solo and group belly-dancing, and more.

After dinner and dessert we needed something to do. Since we were in the middle of a (nicely redecorated) dungeon full of equipment, what better after-dinner fun than to tie up a few slaves and torture them ;) So that’s how we spent the last few hours.

Don’t miss the next one!

Master Ed

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March 2007 Flogging

I would like to thank Master Ed and Lady Karen for doing a great party. I would also like to mention that this was also the 1 year anniversary of my being collared.

Master Ed started the evening with a flogging demo using His slave Lady Karen. He talked about all the different kinds of floggers and how to use them correctly and safely. Then He demonstrated many different flogging techniques on Lady Karen.

To celebrate my anniversary I was tied standing between 2 poles for the night, wearing bondage mitts and thigh cuffs with a spreader bar holding my legs apart. With the permission of my owners, Master Ed and Lady Karen, I was used by 5 different Mistresses during the night. They used floggers, crops and canes on me as they pleased. I was deeply honored to be used by my Master and Mistress in this way, and I look forward to serving Them for many more years.

-0002

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February’s play party was another good one. 30 or 35 old friends and newcomers got together to enjoy each other’s company and DFP’s dungeon.

The night began with a knifeplay demo. I bound my lovely wifeslave karen to the rotating frame, blindfolded and ball-gagged, and asked for quiet during the demo since I would be using razor-sharp blades and needed complete concentration. My slave wore a black teddy that looked so good on her that I was almost reluctant to destroy it. But destroy it I did, slashing it to ribbons as I tormented her with the gleaming blades. My demo showed some of the wide range of possibilities for knifeplay including soft sensual caresses, fear-inducing threats, the erotic tension of wielding razor-sharp edges around very sensitive areas, and the sheer fun of stripping a slave by slicing and slashing her clothes off. We were both deeply gratified by the reception our presentation received – the audience applauded afterwards, and we heard positive comments and compliments all night long. We’re both very happy to know that our guests enjoyed watching as much as we enjoyed giving the demo.

After we finished the play quickly got underway. In just minutes there were scenes going on all through the dungeon. In the main room, a couple of male tops had their female subs bound to the St. Andrew’s Cross and the rotating frame for long flogging scenes; I don’t know who was in the jail cell but from the sound of it somebody was getting a serious ass-whipping; once again there was a violet wand going in the Medical Suite; and I saw at least 2 CBT scenes going on. All this before I even had a chance to hit the buffet table for a drink ;)

As the night progressed I saw people trying the increasingly popular violet wand for the first time (I think there were 3 wands at this party), Masters and Mistresses tormenting their slaves/subs in all sorts of interesting ways involving rope, restraints, floggers, canes, clamps and electrotorture devices. There were at least two female top/female bottom scenes, and I allowed my slave to team up with Mistress R. to double-top a new male sub in my Interrogation Chamber. They used forceps on his nipples and crops all over, sometimes taking turns and sometimes both torturing him at the same time. I soon required my slave’s presence again and Mistress R. finished up solo.

Mistress T. brought a pair of slaves to do her bidding and also tried out, with great results, the softy flogger given to her as a gift by one of her slaves. While she wielded her new flogger in the main room Master D. gave an impromptu fireplay demo in the back hallway that drew an appreciative crowd. After watching the fireplay demo I dragged my slave into the ‘office playroom’ for a private scene wherein I tested the new DFP floggers and restraints.

After we finished our exhaustive “quality control testing” we took some time to hang out and socialize, always one of our favorite things to do at our parties. It's always fun to talk to like-minded people, and to meet new friends who share our special interests.

Hope to see you at the next party on March 17th – wear green for St. Patrick’s Day!

-Master Ed

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I was graciously invited to attend the February play party hosted by Master Ed and Lady Karen. As an apprentice to Lady Karen, and never having attended a private party before, I didn’t really know what to expect. As the guests arrived I was introduced to each person by Lady Karen and given a warm welcome to the community. I had invited a slave of my own for the festivities and when he arrived Lady Karen explain the protocol on how he was to welcome me. He had a collar and leash and was instructed to kneel and I put the collar and leash on him and led him to the party. Master Ed had planned a knifeplay demonstration and as the guests gathered in the main room, everyone’s focus was on Lady Karen who was standing in the center of the room with her hands cuffed above her head. Sir Ed explained the knives he was using were razor sharp and proceeded in silence to cut her gown from her body with swift slashes and torment her in various ways with his blades. After the demonstration everyone moved into different parts of the dungeon and the play began.

Sir P and his sub m began a scene in the middle of the room. It was intense and mesmerizing to watch. My slave sat at my feet and we watched quietly. I whispered to him he was next. And when the time came Sir P helped me get his hands into the cuffs and secured above his head. While I used a crop and flogger on him, Sir P kept handing me different tools to try out. I took him down after checking his hands for warmth as instructed by Lady Karen and we moved to the sidelines and watched the other scenes that were going on.

Mistress C was in the examination room giving a demonstration of the Violet wand and my slave and I watched for a while. Then we were given the chance to try it out. It was exciting and strange as at different intensities I got a very different reaction from my slave, It made me jump on more than one occasion and I ended up laughing and so did everyone else. Lady Karen and I took my slave into the interrogation room and subjected him to a little nipple torture. As the party wound down and guests began to leave the scenes that were still going on got more intense, with Mistress T subjecting Lady Karen’s slave to an electrified cockring. As his moans filled the air I escorted my slave out of the dungeon, had him kiss my feet took off his collar and leash and released him back into the night....~Mistress Roxy

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Feb 07 Wicked Faire
DFP hosted a BDSM after-party at this year’s WickedFaire, a big yearly indoor Renaissance Fair that also includes elements of many different fetish subcultures. We had a double suite at the hotel that quickly filled up with a mix of old friends, new acquaintances, and a steady stream of fair attendees who were curious about the BDSM scene. Before long the mead was flowing, people were socializing, and play got underway everywhere there was room in the suite.

Lady A. brought two of her male subs and she soon had one in restraints against the wall where she used an assortment of tools on him, including a crop, flogger and a dozen or so clothespins on and around his nipples. (She later invited Mistress R. to remove them).

Meanwhile, my wifeslave karen and Mistress R. teamed up for a 2 Mistress/3 male sub flogging scene. The ‘victims’ were our own slave j., Lady A.’s other sub, and a third male sub that karen abducted from the ranks of partygoers. They soon drew an interested crowd of onlookers as the 3 subs were quickly stripped and bent over a counter where they were made available for whatever floggers, lashes, paddles or canes the ladies wished to use on them.

Our good friends Sir J. and his slave a. joined us, and as always they played hard and intense. Sir J. soon had a. tied in a nice rope harness with a super-tight latex hood over her head. He pinned her against a wall and used an assortment of his famous home-made tools and toys on her. Sir J. worked up a sweat, like I would later when I took the time to make use of my slave karen, who looked really hot in her pink DFP tank top, knee-high boots, fencenets and bondage belt.

Lady A. had a violet wand with her, and she demonstrated it on her subs and anyone else who wanted to see what a wand felt like. My slave and I are also big fans of the wand and we’re seeing them more and more at parties - they’re becoming very popular. Stop by the store and see what the buzz is all about: we carry wands and an assortment of fun accessories for them.

While these and other scenes were going on we got to mingle and meet new people from all over the East Coast. We had visitors from CT, PA, NY, VA, SC and even FL. We saw a lot of nice fetishwear including corsets, harnesses, lots of leather, and even a couple of kilts. My karen showed everyone what the perfect slave should be: she was a charming hostess who made sure everyone was enjoying themselves while still remaining perfectly attentive to her Master’s needs. She served me eagerly and gracefully, maintaining proper humility while seeing to it that my glass was never empty and taking care of various tasks and errands as I required.

Then it was our turn to play. I put my luscious wifeslave in a simple bondage on a rolling office chair. I made her kneel on the chair and bend over, exposing her black ruffle pantied bottom for my use. I attached her wrist restraints to the bondage belt she was wearing, pulled up her black micro skirt, and warmed her up with a brisk hand spanking. Then it was time to break out a heavy elk flogger. I started out gently but that didn’t last long – soon I was winding up and really laying into her with strokes hard enough to move the chair she was kneeling on. Once again she proved her devotion to her Master by taking everything I gave her without complaint, even though the tears were rolling down her pretty cheeks. Our appreciative audience gave us spontaneous rounds of applause for my skill and her willingness to accept whatever her Master chose to inflict on her. By the end I was sweating and breathing hard, while my wonderful little slave was sore and properly thankful for her Master’s efforts.

We had a great time as did everyone who attended. Thanks to all who joined us and we hope to see all of you (or y’all as karen would say) at our upcoming parties in Montclair.

-Master Ed

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My beautiful wifeslave karen dressed for the season wearing all white – a beautiful corset and frilly petticoat, nylons, heels, and duct tape ;) And I got to wear a couple of my Christmas presents for the first time – really nice leather BDUs (i.e. combat pants) and a new pair of intimidating fingerless leather gloves to replace my old ones.

We started the party off by separating into 2 groups: Doms/Masters/Mistresses/Tops in the main room and subs/slaves/bottoms in the Medical Suite. In the Doms group we discussed various aspects of lifestyle relationships: how to take care of your slaves/subs, emotional & psychological concerns, collars, and much more. I don’t know all of the details from the slave/bottoms group, but if there’s enough interest I’ll order karen to write about it. After the discussion groups ended the bottoms treated us to a show of bottoms :)

Then it was playtime. Two of our friends were celebrating birthdays. Sir P. celebrated by wheeling a gurney into the main room, tying his slave m. to the gurney with her legs stretched to the St. Andrew’s Cross, and warming her up with a spanking and caning assisted by Sir D. He then inserted a birthday candle, enlisted a few bystanders to sing ‘Happy Birthday’, and blew out the candle. Later another friend got a round of birthday spankings from a few members, and my slave finished up by breaking a paddle on his butt!

In other goings on, one male slave had his genitals electro-tortured by several female Tops throughout the evening; I saw a Dom leading his French Maid around on a leash; there was at least one Violet Wand scene; and I caught a glimpse of what looked like a pretty extreme CBT scene in the Medical Suite. I was glad to see that my Interrogation Cell got a lot of use, with at least 3 scenes – 1 female Top/male bottom, one male Top/female bottom, and one female Top/female bottom. And as always there was lots of bondage, spanking, caning and flogging going on all around, as well as some beautiful formal D/s interplay and some foot worship using the Throne.

Of course the highlight for me was my scene with my lovely slave karen. I was feeling especially sadistic and she was ready as always to suffer at my hands. I bound her to the rack, yanked up her petticoat, and warmed her up with a brisk hand spanking. Once she was properly reddened I switched to my favorite riding crop and worked her over with it until the first lovely tears appeared. Then it was time for a heavy elk flogger. I really let loose with it, beating her mercilessly, not letting up even when she cried and whimpered with the pain – that only drove me to whip her even harder. As the sound of brutally hard flogger strokes filled the dungeon, I was incredibly proud of her for taking the beating I gave her, knowing that every stroke she endured was a testament to her devotion to me, her Lord and Master. After taking her to the limit, I gently untied her and held her until the pain subsided enough for her to come upstairs with me for the aftercare I knew she needed. For the remainder of the evening she knelt at my feet or served me as needed: she’s the perfect slave in every way and I know how fortunate I am to own such a beautiful and spirited plaything.

All in all, a tremendously enjoyable night for Host/hostess and guests alike. Thanks to all who attended and we hope to see all of you again soon.

Our parties have been so successful that as of February we will be going from one party a month to two – twice the opportunity to play, and hopefully more members will be able to choose a date that fits their schedules.

-Master Ed

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December's party started off with a presentation on Shibari, the Japanese art of rope bondage. Sir David and his assistant, pro domme and fetish model Vivian, did a superb job of showing the intricacies of this fascinating art. Sir David's demonstrations were beautiful and informative and he was gracious enough to continue doing ties all night long on a steady stream of eager volunteers. To see some of his work, click here.

As always there were lots of good scenes going on. I missed quite a few because I took the opportunity to do a couple of scenes with my gorgeous slave karen. A few of the scenes I did see were a male sub bound to the St Andrew's Cross and waxed; another male sub restrained and electrotortured; an intense CBT/acupuncture scene in the Medical Suite; and of course lots of bondage, flogging, cropping and caning going on all around. There was also a private scene in the Medical Suite that must have been a wild one, judging by the sounds coming from behind the closed doors…

My slave karen dressed as a naughty elf in a red velvet minidress with festive red fishnets and stilettos. She looked so good that I was inspired to bind her to the St. Andrew's Cross for a session of hard flogging and lashing to make her bottom as red as her dress ;) She made me proud as she took a really severe lashing with barely a whimper. We then retired to the small downstairs office for some private aftercare. While we were in there we could hear what sounded like lots of fun scenes going on in the main room.

I also made time later to drag her into my Interrogation Chamber, where I bound her to the subject chair with plastic tubing and enjoyed a bit of knifeplay. Maybe it's just me, but the sounds of a helpless slave whimpering in fear make great Holiday music ;)

To help celebrate the Holidays we gave out door prizes and a prize for Best Holiday Outfit . The door prizes were DVDs that went to 6 happy recipients, and the DFP Gift Certificate for Best Holiday Outfit went to a cool fetish Santa and his harnessed reindeer. Congratulations to all of our winners!

December's party was lots of fun for all of us, as well as a chance to exchange Holiday greetings with friends old and new. Hope to see all of you on January 27th for our first party of the new year.

Master Ed

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DFP December’s Party

 Shibari Rope Play

This month will be in two parts, as I don’t want to take the spot light from one to another.

 First I would like to take the time to thank David Lawrence for the great job he did at Dressing for Pleasures Demo and his beautiful assistant, Vivian. First, I was in contact with David by email as I was to be part of the Demo. He acted in a true professional way, asking questions about limitations and flexibility. Also to be followed up with phone call so he could touch base with me. When he came into the room you could see the confidence on his face as David knew how to get the attention of the crowd. David’s first Demo was with his model and friend Vivian. As he tied her up he kept it very light, both laughed had fun. Remember that is what this is all about, to know your subs limitations but also have a great time. As David went along on his rope demo he used his imagination and the outcome was fantastic.  Next, a Domme asked him to please tie up her sub as she thought it would be nice to play with her. David again did a great job of securing her spread-eagled arms over a bamboo pole. I know the Domme also appreciated it by the smile on her face. Then the scene began between the Mistress and her sub. Last but not least I was to be tied. David first started with me standing up, then he had me do a back bend, which made me look like I was standing on my head for awhile… then one leg came up and the other too, so I looked like a forward fold, then hands behind my back Once he was done my Master took over and started to scene with me. I wish we had more time but by then DFP was closing. David was so considerate he even made me a pillow for my head to rest… of course it was made out of rope!

 David will also come out for small groups of 4 or more, if you need to brush up on your rope play. Please check out his web site davidlawrence@shibariartphotography.com.

 As always,

Your DFP Reporter

DFP December’s Party

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Part 2

What a beautiful time we all had a DFP this month. In light of the coming New Year, the owners gave the Dungeon a new coat of paint. There were about 35 players there, first the prize winner Santa and his reindeer (Rudolph). Boy Santa really knows how to dress his reindeer in antlers, and chains Ho,Ho, Ho. There were a number of door prizes also given out during the night.

David Lawrence was there, doing a Shibari Rope Demo (please see part 1). David was more than generous with his time as he demoed all night long, into the wee hours of the morning.

There were Mistress’s with their subs, both male and female their bottoms all a glowing in the festive color of red. Also some Dom’s with their subs, the screams of pleasure echoing though the chambers, rattling the walls so hard that the fixtures shook. For one minute the screams rattled so hard I thought there could have been tornado coming… but then again it was December. Then Sir Ed had his trusty assistant Mrs. Clause… I wonder where Dancer, Prancer, Comet and Blitzen were.  We all know where Rudolph was… getting her ass beat!

There were some scenes I missed as Master had me busy in another room. I was a little busy trying to remember the special word that Master had assigned to me.  For the life of me I couldn’t remember it. With two Dom’s trying to make me remember, pink, yellow, balloons, I even yelled Chastity, so finally the word Red came to mind. I still could not remember the word of Mercy but that stopped the scene. Master has made it very clear to me that he will keep going till I remember this silly word… but much fun was had by all. I made my Dom and his friend laugh with my “ouches” all night.

From my family, my Master and my extended family I wish you all a beautiful and safe Holiday Season.

 Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

 Your DFP Reporter

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November's play party started with an informative presentation by famous sex therapist/relationships counselor Nan Wise. Nan did a presentation at our June party that was so well received that I had her come back for an encore.

After Nan's presentation concluded it was playtime. We had one of our largest turnouts yet with 35-40 people attending. There was a lot of play going on – at one point I counted 8 scenes going on at once! There were more than a dozen new members at this party, some of whom traveled from as far as Queens, Brooklyn, and south Jersey to join us. Thanks to all of you, new members and old friends, for joining us and helping to make November's party one to remember.

Some representative scenes:
2 subs, one male and one female, bound back-to-back and tormented by several Doms/Dommes;
a sub nicely bound on the swing by her Master;
a male top/male bottom Violet Wand scene;
a Domme teaching her femsub how to flog, using a willing male sub;
a “tag team” scene with 2 Doms taking turns cropping/caning/etc a femsub on the St. Andrew's cross;
2 new members in a long caning scene with a nice buildup;
and as always, lots of fun & games in the Medical Suite.

The dungeon was so busy that I know I missed a lot of good scenes. But I was especially glad to see my Interrogation Room get some good use – I was starting to think I'd made it a little too intimidating ;)

The highlight for me, of course, was the scene I did with my beautiful wifeslave karen. I started by blindfolding her and securing her to the St. Andrew's cross, where I spanked, flogged and lashed her until she settled comfortably into subspace. At that point I surprised her by taking her off the cross for a bit of knifeplay. Then it was time to move her onto the rack for a hard flogging that brought forth (with a little encouragement) some gratifying cries of pain. Once I'd heard what I wanted to hear, I brought the intensity down slightly with a waxing. Then I concluded the scene by removing the wax with a razor-sharp butterfly knife, and led her off to my “office” for some loving aftercare.

I had a great time at this party, and from what I saw and heard, so did everybody else. Happy Thanksgiving to all, and hope to see you at our next party on Saturday December 16 th .

Master Ed

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November's Party

Well as usual the owners threw a great party. Two New Jersey dungeons got together this month. It is always exciting to see everyone come together for a good cause… ass beating.

First, our (and my) house Airline Pilot showed up in his fetish outfit. Uniforms always do something to me. He said something like, come fly me, but I have no idea what he meant and off he went into the wild blue yonder!

Then we had a guest from another sister Dungeon in Pa. He learned a lot as he was new, he came with his switch. I made sure he felt at home and introduced him to everyone. I also explained as things were going on and all about protocol. Hence he has named me the honorary mayor of DFP. Thanks for making my night…you made me laugh and I will remember you. He also said to me that he really liked this place, for it is intimate and you can get to know everyone. There were also hugs and kisses exchanged and much girl talk going on in another room. I think he found out real fast there are no secrets in our community! It's like a small community and he is right about the atmosphere, as each dungeon has its own character.

There were so many scenes; at one time there were 8 going on! I have two good friends that were here, one needed a Dom, one needed a sub… so I matched them up, and guess what, she learned what a single tail was… oh my but she glowed! Both of you will get my bill in the mail. There was a sub put into the stockade, poor soul. Her Dom made sure she paid the price of being a naughty wench. Since our Wand man was busy somewhere else, someone else took his room. There were cries of pure pleasure coming out of the Medical Room. The Interrogation room was being used by a Dom and his sub there were also cries coming out of “that” room, Hell and Heaven. I also learned never to forget a Dommes name. I don't think I will ever forget her name, the sub was made to say it out loud 500 times, Mistress ????? Then there were two subs in the rotating vertical frame at once, their Dom and Domme took turns bringing them pleasure. Can't forget the wooden swing I also found out a new use for this; tie up sub, bend her over wooden swing stir till you get her rear a beautiful pink color. Saw a pony… he was in training for the races at the Meadowlands, which isn't too far away. One of the Mistresses in the room was explaining what he has to do to become a pony. I think maybe he has changed his mind…but who knows.

Then the hosts of DFP played. This was a message to all subs, communicate with your Dom and yell out! Sir Ed showed the other side of himself when his slave didn't yell out loudly enough for everyone to hear. Then of course he applied Hot Wax, this was his way of saying he loves her. Sir, if you ever scene with me, please send me flowers instead! But then again it was all in fun, as always.

Regards,

your DFP Reporter

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October's Party

A lot of the regulars were missing. There has been a bug going around that have kept people in bed. But that didn't stop Sir Ed, even though he wasn't feeling well, he was there, being the host of his kinky family. I heard some others were keeping the rest of the state under control at other parties. Some with their wands were electrifying other states, New Jersey's loss.

Sir Ed started the night by given the congregation his blessings. Once the blessings were done his flock moved into play time. Now I know where all those Altar boys and Choir girls went, to DFP of course.

Before I mentioned the word kinky, well that was an understatement for last night. I guess Sir Ed could not find a cauldron to cook people in, so he hung them.

Sir Ed invited Vampyre Miguel and friends to demonstrate Pierced Suspension & Bloodletting. When you think you are too old to learn new tricks you are proven wrong. There were many things going on last night at Dressing for Pleasure. But the one thing that stood out in my mind was the Demo. Now this wasn't for the weak or faint of heart. DFP even hired a nurse for the evening in case things went wrong. Hey Dom's/Masters there is a new way to find your sub, hang her. I know the Dom sitting next to me was drooling from time to time… I had to wipe his chin (being a good sub). Miguel was there and his brother, they took this young girl into the Medical Room and placed her on the table where they prepped her. Started to grab pieces of flesh from her back, in six different areas. They found the six areas that proven hook worthy. Which must have been hard as this young lady was very slender. They cleaned the areas with antiseptic solution (oh I feel so much better now). Once this was done they made little dots on her back where the hooks (yes I said hooks) would go in, between the flesh and the muscle. Of course these weren't little hooks. There were shark hooks; especially made for Miguel, so they slide in and out (that is what they all say). Well now this young lady is brought out into the main room. She lies down on the floor where they start to attach thin rope to this stainless steel hoist, and then tied her legs together. One Dom said he had the urge to go fishing. He then started to though out all his small needles. Sir what could this mean? When all the rope was attached they started to lift her in the air, by the skin on her back. Now I know how Superman did it. After they released her back to the floor she reached behind her and put her fingers into her blood and then licked them clean. Just like any Vampire would do, but of course this was Halloween. After she quenched her thirst, she walked around for about 45 minutes or so with these hooks hanging out of her back. This Demo made me think back to when my children were younger and my biggest problem was having them keep their curfew.

Sir Ed then decided that some of his flock needed to be disciplined so he found the nearest school girl. She was so naughty, her Master told her to bring something to go with her uniform and she forgot it. You know, no bad deed at DFP goes unnoticed especially if a Master or Dom is involved (they have memories like elephants).

Lady Karen's slave brought his new violet wand and his Mistress used it on him well. I smelled hair burning all over the Dungeon. I even counted some Yellows being yelled out there. There was also another Mistress that used Lady Karen's slave. She was upset as he forgot his manners. Sir Ed asked me if I wanted to practice on the slave, perhaps another time when I have Masters permission.

Sir Ed & Karen were very upset. They ordered new gags; the Vendor called at the last minute and said they could not deliver last night as there were so many parties going on. I hope that the delivery is met for the November party as the gags were really needed!

As I write this Sir Ed & Karen are thinking what they can do for next month. What can they do to top this one? Please if you want to see something let DFP know the crazier the better, but always SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual).

The DPF Reporter

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I'd like to thank Sir Ed and Lady Karen for allowing us to play in their space and for being our host & hostess. October's turnout for the playparty was a little on the light side due to the flu bug going around. Sir Ed wasn't feeling well.

I, as Lady Karen's slave was tied up in a standing position between 2 steel poles with my hands in bondage mitts and a spreader bar on my ankles for the entire night except during the demo. At that time, I was free to walk around with my wrists cuffed to my thigh cuffs.

After being place back in my spot, various members used me as they chose. One lady who came with the group doing the demo flogged me VERY hard...beyond my limits. I chose to hold back on using my safeword as I was pushing my limits in the hope that it would please Lady Karen.

While Lady O flogged me, Sir Ed was spanking his slave for being a naughty schoolgirl. There was a couple taking turns spanking each other and there was another couple that played on the bondage swing. The Dom placed his slave on the swing and proceeded to physically torment her in manners he saw fit.

As the night wound down, members slowly left and Sir Ed proceeded to take pictures of me as I was tied up. Thank you very much, Sir Ed, for being the photographer. Some of these pictures are with Lady Karen flogging me and standing by my side.

I was sad at being untied..I would've stayed there a week for Lady Karen. It gives me something to look forward to that I will be able to do it again for Lady Karen.

See you all next month!
member #0002

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This party was close to my heart. One of the owners had a Birthday. Lady Karen's slave presented her with a cake and then everyone sang Happy Birthday. I know Sir Ed had his own gift for her later on…

Mr. Wand also had a Birthday. Sir, you aren't one year older you are one year younger? Hope you have many more. There were many subs that also had Birthdays as you could hear people counting all over the dungeon as each and every one received their Birthday whacks.

My Master was able to come to this party, so I was busy most of the time pleasing him but I will try to give you an account of what happened around the dungeon as best I can. I hope I don't offend anyone or leave anyone out but I was a little tied up, shall we say!

I know DFP was going to be busy tonight, for the Dom's and Dommes were coming though the front doors with their game faces on. There was a great scene going on right in front of me while a Domme had her sub tied to the pole. Who could not love this lady, she is so demure but then she comes out with this wicked hand… slap, slap, slap, then the crop… she makes you talk, you say things that you would not say under normal circumstances. But you must love her, as she cuddles each and every sub she touches with aftercare. She is radiant as she makes her subs squirm and tingle with anticipation. But you can see the love she offers during aftercare. There was a new couple there last night WELCOME. They were in the corner space with their bottle of wine. I now know there isn't a reason for a shoe shine person anymore for his sub was more than happy to lick her Master boots, and she did this so well. Her Master was also trying out for some kind of kick boxing class as he showed us a new way to get your subs attention. Sir it got my attention, and was erotic…

There was another Domme at the other side of the room. She ruled in her chair…demanded attention…and she got it. She had one switch on his knees crying out in pain, but he loved every minute of it. As she caressed another subs hair and back, he looked like a little boy in seventh heaven…

We had a “baby” there; she was so good, never cried at all, just kept sucking her binky. She sat in her high chair and watched. While Master had me tied to the medical table, she watched from outside the room as Master made me squirm, trying to do back bends to get away from his “evil” implements. Master also used his crop on my naughty bits, which I have come to really enjoy. Mr. Wand advised Master on places that I should be taken too, for more enjoyment and Master's pleasure, of course. Sir also discussed with two other Dom's about how nice and red he was making certain parts of my body. Sir spent some time noticing that the sensitivity difference was between day and night in those areas. Perhaps Master likes playing better at night then the day! I guess Master really was enjoying what he was doing, as he started humming a tune while he worked. A close friend of my who could see more than I said, “Sir has a beautiful smile on his face while busy at work.”

The Interrogation room was being used to spread more love in the world and the cries coming from within and comments from the outside were worth hearing.

There were many new faces there last night that is for sure.  

Well that is all for September party. As we speak they are making plans for October's party. Let's see all the witches and vampires that can come out that night. Drink blood, suck on some necks… the caldrons are being warmed up….the firewood is being gathered. Hope to see all of you there.

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A joint event was held August 26, 2006 by Dressing for Pleasure and Shackled Pleasures NJ in Montclair. A good assembly of old and new members were in attendance.

Rather than opening with a demonstration, the evening began with “Mistress CBT” doing a scene with a subject on the throne chair. With her trademarked colored rope, she soon had the goods securely trussed up, and with the aid of a new player began T'ing the C and B.   This quickly got others in the spirit, and more play soon commenced throughout the dungeon.

Throughout the evening, the medical room was the home of a stream of patients. Good thing DFP paid its electric bill last month, because the popular treatment of the night was the violet wand. Many a fine electron was sacrificed this evening for the torment of the patients.   It seems that DFP is now officially a teaching hospital, as the head of the Department of Violet Wands was observed teaching of the Drs. (Dom'sters) the finer points on the use of this time honored medical device. For at least one of the patients, its was her first time and by all reports she had a shockingly good time. Several other patients had returned for what appears to be their monthly treatment. At least one patient also enjoy another treatment. The tuning fork, strategically placed, worked to soon get her to a fevered pitch. Fortunately, she was hitting the right note and was heard throughout the entire dungeon.

The main room also had its share of use. There was a hot impact scene over by the St. Andrew's cross, involving an assortment of paddles, whips, floggers, squeals, screams and moans. Also, the rotating bondage frame was the location for a blindfolded bondage scene with the use of an arm-spreader bar, ropes, and impact toys. Flogging, whipping, and various forms of touching all kept the subject slightly off balance. Of course, being perched in the high heels also help keep her off balance. The whip must have been a particularly tasty treat, as she was observed holding it in her mouth for quite a while.

At one point in the evening, the planned demonstrator arrived with his case of canes. A lovely victim, err volunteer, took an appropriate standing position and was semi-restrained. The Domonstrator proceeded to use a wide variety of canes to administer a series of repetitive taps on numerous part of the subject. Rather than being what one may traditionally think of as a caning, it was more of sensuous caning which sensitized many points of the subject's body. That does not mean that there were no jumps, flinches or vocalizations.  

Over in another part of the main room, a male sub was given a good working over by a highly skilled Domme. Chained against the wall, he was soon moaning and writhing as the result her use of a number of toys as well as her hands. As the scene progressed, she soon had him (and most of the spectators) believing that she had place needles through his wobbly bits. She seemed to delight in twisting and pulling the needles, and he responded appropriately to that torment. She raised the stakes when she fired up her violet wand and proceeded to play him with it. Ultimately, it turned out the so-called needles were really a highly skilled mind fuck – both of the sub as well as many of the spectators.

Shortly afterwards, another scene took place in the rotating bondage frame. Another Domme proceeded to give a slave a nice sound thrashing with several impact toys. The scene went through the spectrum, from green to yellow, and finally ending on red.  

One of the new members was shackled to the wall next to the throne, and received her first flogging. The flogging was not a severe one, but it served well to introduce her to the pain/pleasure of a good flogging. She was so enthralled by it, that right after it she wanted and was given some instruction on the wielding of the implement. One of the well experienced subs from SPNJ graciously volunteered to be the object of her first endeavors, and she did well. Now comes the question --- is it better to give than to receive?

Perhaps the hottest scene of the night occurred in the interrogation room. One of the newer subs to DFP, a return from last month, was given a thorough and extended session by a Domme. The scene involved the use, at various times, of a blindfold, paddles, floggers (including a fur flogger?), bondage, vampire gloves (?), violet wand, spanking, and other toys. I am sure that Sir Ed's foresight of including the two-way mirror was appreciated by the spectators.

Overall, it was a very enjoyable evening for both players and spectators. Thanks to Sir Ed, Lady Karen, DFP, and the rest of the staff for making this happen.

Ken (a/k/a 114 and 092)

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*****

Great party by DFP for August.

Ed and Karen have been blessed with a beautiful addition to their family. Sorry Sir, baby looks just like his gorgeous Mother. Also Happy Birthday wishes for the new Mom, go girl, it's your Birthday !

The stars of the night… let's see where to begin. There were so many, please forgive me if I leave out one or two. I was able to see more this month as I was sitting in the spectator seats!

Well in the Medical room there was Wand play, of course what else. I believe the Master of the wands will have his own room pretty soon. I understand it might be under construction as we speak. The line as always for wand play was way down the hall; I believe that Sir Ed might put in a ticket check, like the bakery, so you can scene in another area and then come back when the Master calls your number! Tuning fork, well I'm never too old to learn something new. With luck I will be able to try this next time, if I play my cards right. The sounds coming from the young lady, who was more than happy to volunteer, sounded beautiful and also erotic. There I thought the tuning fork was just to learn music notes from, but it was music to my ears as she cried out.

Also learned the secret ingredients for Fire & Ice as I was able to mingle with some people this month and ask questions. I swore not to divulge the secret ingredients to a single soul as it has been passed down from generation to generation. But Master has a way of getting things out of me. Needle play, well, I have found someone for needle play so I might have a pretty design around my breasts next month with Master's permission. The Dom said I won't feel anything but we all know how Dom's kind of stretch the truth.

A very good friend was collared by his Mistress, congratulations to him!

Imagination is what makes a great Dom; it just goes to show you that you don't have to have a bag full of toys to be good at what you do. With all the rushing around sometimes you leave things at home. But that did not stop this beautiful couple. He modified and adjusted like a true Dom with a pole, rope, a hood and a big hand. He made his sub squirm and regain her balance many times.   Then she must have said in loving words that she feels like a little kid again for he then started pushing her back and forth like on a swing, making sure she lost her balance again. He also reminded her that she doubts his loving kindness and the beautiful way he treats her. I guess he didn't eat enough at the BBQ he was at earlier; for then he started biting her… it did seem like this was a different sensation she has never felt. They all laughed about it after. Again he used his imagination with what he had available to him… very impressive.

#0074

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Dressing For Pleasure's July Play Party started off with a lot of socializing – it felt almost like a reunion. Members old and new spent a while chatting with old friends and meeting new ones before heading downstairs. We had quite a few new faces this time and I hope to see all of the first-time guests become regulars – my slave karen and I enjoyed meeting all of you, and as always it was great to see so many of our old friends again.

The evening started with one of our good friends giving a presentation on “Improvised BDSM Equipment”. He discussed many ingenious low-cost alternatives for bondage and restraints, spreaders, paddles and impact toys, sensation toys and hoods. He also talked about some of his unique toys and techniques including balloon play and a simulated haircut mindfuck ;) His presentation was informative and entertaining and the crowd showed their appreciation with a rousing round of applause.

After “Improvised BDSM Equipment” the main party started. I think every room and piece of equipment got some use except my Interrogation Room. Maybe it's a little too intimidating?

As I strolled around the dungeon I was gratified to see people having fun everywhere. As always the St. Andrews Cross got a lot of use, as did the new Medical Suite.

Speaking of the Medical Suite, maybe I should consider adding an Electroplay room. One of our members brought his extensive Violet Wand kit and spent most of the party in the Medical Suite demonstrating the wand and generously teaching many interested members how to use it and letting them play with it. Some of the great attachments were the Body Probe and the Rake. He also showed his own expertise with the wand and showed off his o-ring nipple decorating suction gadget (I guess you had to be there).

I also saw a mixed group of old and new members teaming up for a bondage scene using the Throne. And one of our members showed why she's becoming known as the “CBT Girl” by demonstrating what she can do with a length or two of rope and a male sub…

A few other interesting things I saw:

One of our houseslaves tied up and left in a dark office
2 sadistic doctors ganging up on a female patient in the Medical Suite
A slave bitgagged and made to wear a ponytail buttplug for the first time
A thoughtful mistress ordering her slave to massage Lady Karen's aching feet
2 more sadistic doctors ganging up on another female patient in the Medical Suite

Of course I also took time to play with my beautiful slave karen. I had a slave bring the spanking bench and a few ropes to the end of the new wing. After karen obediently placed herself in restraints I blindfolded her and tied her to the bench in a sitting position, legs wide apart and bent slightly forward. I selected a few harsh lashes (you didn't think she'd get off easy just because she's 8.5 months pregnant, did you?) and warmed her up with a brisk hand spanking. Then came one of my favorite toys, a 4-tailed braided lash. I really enjoyed seeing her squirm in her futile attempts to avoid the harsh sting of the thin leather tails. After briefly considering her pleas for mercy, and deciding I wasn't inclined to grant any, I gave her a few more hard strokes and then switched to the fan-tipped cat she recently gave me as a present. Her cries and screams were suitably gratifying, so after only 5 or 10 minutes of the cat I finally gave her a break. I untied her and took her off to a more private spot for the loving aftercare that I knew she needed.

Then we rejoined our guests and spent the remainder of the evening enjoying everybody's company and the scenes that were going on all around.

Thanks to everybody who joined us for this great party, and I hope to see all of you at our August event.

Master Ed

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Another fine party put on by the host & hostess of DFP, Sir Ed & Lady K. How nice it was to see all the different types of people that make up our community. Also, a special thanks to Sir J and his pretty sub. I think I will now shop more at Home Depot and the Dollar Store. Hey don't laugh until you can see all the good things Sir J came up with. To put a smile on all the subs faces and a glow to their rears. It was also nice to see some newcomers, welcome aboard, hope to see more of all of you again. Special thanks to Sir C & Sir P for I now have enough electricity going though my body to run the new air conditioner in the dungeon. When Sir C finished with his Violet Wand demo, I was glowing a green, red, violet for hours later. Thank God he only had 60 or so attachments with him, give or take, and Sir P used each and every one. Sir C also showed me there isn't any reason to buy a spreader bar. Thank you again Sir C you made my night.

Waiting for the next party with baited breath for there will be a Little New Dom to add to the Group List.

#0074

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First of all, i have to say that i had a wonderful time. The night started out with the demonstration. It went over very well as there were many insights into normal household items that could be used for BDSM scenes. As the demonstration wrapped up, the playing began. I wandered about and watched the many scenes playing out. As i wandered about, i found that there was a Violet Wand unit demo going on, guided by the one who owned the unit itself as a Master used it on His slave. I was not able to get in on that scene when He offered to demonstrate on others that were there but that was not the last of it that night. After a little more wandering around, i found that there was another Violet Wand demo was going on just like before. This one had gone on the same as before, the owner of the unit was guideing a Master as He played with his slave. This one i was able to get in on however. After the Master was done, He allowed His slave to use the wand unit on me. It was a total blast, i was haveing a great time as they zapped me here and there along my body, i think she was enjoying herself as much as i was. Sadly though, time was up for me that night after the wand play as it was getting late and i had things to do the next day. On my way out, i thanked Lady Karen for a wonderfull night and promised i would be returning for the next play party.

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We had a great turnout for Dressing For Pleasure’s June Play Party. Lots of familiar faces and quite a few new members had the chance to mingle, chat, make new friends and of course play!

The Party started off with a rockin’ set by the local band “13 Clean” featuring their D/s-themed single “My Permission”. The band sounded good – I saw a few couples dancing in the shoe room!

After “13 Clean” finished their set, noted sex therapist and relationships counselor Nan Wise gave a talk in the gallery on what it takes to make relationships work, with a special focus on D/s, BDSM and other alternative lifestyles. Her presentation was well received and led to a Q&A. She then moved the group down to the dungeon for a follow-up session.

After Nan’s session ended, the band did another set in the dungeon, and then it was time for the play party to start. The June party was the Grand Opening of the new dungeon wing featuring a 2-bay Medical Suite, Interrogation Chamber, the Office, another dressing room and more lounge and play space. The well stocked Medical Suite was a huge hit: members were lined up to try it out, and we even had 2 members come dressed as Doctor and Nurse for the occasion. At one point there were 3 scenes going on in there at the same time. Good thing I made the suite so big.

The main dungeon also saw a lot of use. Members played on the rack, in the locking jail cell, in the rotating vertical frame, and of course on the always popular St. Andrew’s Cross. As usual, there was a mix of male Dom/fem sub, fem Dom/male sub, fem Dom/fem sub, and several CD/TS members playing together and with female tops. Some members used the ropes, restraints, crops etc that we provide although most brought their own favorite bondage gear, crops, whips, floggers, paddles, canes, medical toys and other goodies. One longtime member demonstrated his expertise with a surprising array of homemade toys – it’s amazing the perverted uses you can find for everyday items.

For me the highlight of the party was the opening of my Interrogation Chamber. With its stark walls, 2-way mirror, harsh lighting and the collection of scary-looking torture implements the Chamber is a perfect setting for extreme play. I did a harsh interrogation scene with my lovely young wifeslave Lady Karen. I prefer a hard “military” interrogation, not a mild police-style. She was supposed to resist giving up a code, and I would get her to talk. They always do, in the end ;)

I started by dragging her into the chamber, strapping her into the highbacked subject chair, and looping surgical tubing around her throat. I left her to sweat for a short while under the glare of 200 watts of spotlights while I prepared. When I returned, I consulted her “file”, demonstrated that I already knew a lot about her, asked a few easy lead-in questions, and once she started talking I began the real questioning. She didn’t want to cooperate but screaming in her face and slapping her around got her attention. She was still reluctant to give up the code, so I applied a combination of psychological pressure and physical torture, including yanking her hair, screaming and threatening, ripping her top down to use surgical forceps on her nipples, and so on…

She proved resistant so I tried a few other basic techniques: strangling her, playing good guy/bad guy by offering to let her go if she just told me the code and then threatening to cut her throat with a razor-sharp knife if she didn’t, slapping and choking her, and whispering psychotic threats in her ear about what else I would do to her. She gave up some of the code but bravely held out until I surprised her by putting a gun to her head and telling her that if she kept wasting my time like this I’d blow her brains all over the cell and fuck what was left of her. Through her tears she gave up the last of the code, ending what was for both of us an intensely intimate, erotic and rewarding scene.

Other members enjoyed it too – we got comments like “holy shit”, “wow, that was incredible”, and “unbelievably intense”.

-Master Ed

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My delicious slut and I really enjoyed this month's DFP party. It is always fun being at Dressing For Pleasure where they make you feel at ease and they have a good sense of humor… something often lacking in our world! The dungeon was fabulous, with sweet cries of pain/pleasure floating through the air at various times, the atmosphere was excellent. The medical play room and interrogation room have really added to the dungeon area and Sir Ed's prisoner "interview" was something to watch. It was good to see so many playing and enjoying the great dungeon equipment that was available. While my slut and I are not a real Doctor and nurse, we did stay at a Holiday Inn Express the night before… so we were able to be much more realistic while we played and I gave slut the examination she so richly deserved! Our new friends were there also and slut and I enjoyed the communal play enormously. Here's hoping there will be many more theme parties to enjoy in the coming months.

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June 2006 Opening of new Medical Wing & Interrogation Room

Congratulations to the owners of Dressing for Pleasure. As always Sir Ed & Lady Karen made everyone feel at home in their new space. First, lets give them both a hand for all the time and effort they put into making the new rooms as fabulous as they are, they deserve it!

We can't forget Nan.... if Nan knew how she changed some peoples minds that night, and the different outlook she gave them, I'm sure she would smile.

Lady Karen was cleaning and painting into the wee hours of the morning... as Sir Ed cracked the whip. Who knows when the new little Dom will appear. Of course, what would a new medical room be without a Doctor and Nurse. We were on call just in-case Lady Karen went into labor and had her baby.

Interrogation Room... Well I can only speak for myself but I would have given Sir Ed any information he needed... in anyway that he needed it, alphabetically, sequentially, musically, as long as I didn't have to enter that room with him! And, if needed, I would have obtained it from other people also... I would only enter that room hogtied and please, don't get any ideas Sir!

Then there was Sir D who showed me he could use a single tail on me and still leave skin on my bottom. Sir D also showed me how to tap dance as he used the single tail. In return I taught Sir a new vocabulary... one that he certainly won't use in his daily career! I also learned another reason for using baby oil... one that "slips" my mind right now. There were also other things going on... some I was too tied up to watch at the time but it sure sounded great!

Everyone had a great time, there was a good crowd and all such nice and friendly people. Here's hoping I see everyone again for the July party. Bull Whips... wonder what that might feel like?!?!

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The DFP Saint Paddy's Play Party was underway at 9:pm. Guests included couples, CD's, Mistress's and newly signed members. Refreshments were available while guests got acquainted, then settled in the Dungeon where the evening's festivities unfolded.

Our hosts Sir Ed and Lady Karen presented a demonstration in Mummification by Plastic Wrap. With the assistance of CD member Michelle, Sir Ed partially encased Lady Karen in clear plastic wrapping, during which time he informed the audience of the safety aspects and precautions to be followed while undertaking such play.  After her upper body was wrapped, Lady Karen was assisted onto the rack face-up, where she was further secured to the device with additional wrapping. Sir Ed entertained us with creative ideas in exposing areas of the body for teasing while a submissive is immobilized in plastic.  Michelle volunteered herself to show how the plastic wrap can be used for simple, quick and effective restraining of her wrists, as well as providing an interesting alternative to more common methods of bondage.  Michelle also shared her past mummification experiences with the group in a comical fashion.

The evening continued with couples engaging in personalized sessions, some using equipment and furniture in the main dungeon area, while others used the privacy of the holding cell.  Some couples maintained their roles as Top and bottom. Still others switched roles, creating a more interesting and variable way of playing. Newly joined members conversed with distinguished regular members, such as Mistress Pearl and her pet-slave, as well as other DFP staff members.

There's talk of plans for a "Meet the Mistress Night" in the near future, to be held during a DFP monthly party. Submissive males would have the opportunity to introduce themselves to the Lady of their dreams. We are told to periodically check for postings of such an event on the DFP website. Anticipation continues as target dates for the completion of the expanded dungeon are set for early to mid-summer.

The evening is wrapped-up around yet another successful DFP Play Party.  

Member #0004

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The DFP Valentines Play Party was held on Saturday, February 25th with 16 Members in attendance. Refreshments were available and activities got underway at 9:pm.

The evening began with an interesting and informative demonstration in self-bondage, performed by Slave J. Simple to intricate rope tying techniques were displayed, as well as proper testing and quick release procedures for those interested in self-bondage play. Sir Ed joined in to offer additional suggestions as well as a question and answer time with the members.

The night continued with a sensual corporal session involving Sir Ed and Lady Karen; they used the leather-lined table as a play base. Other members were looking on, dressed in appropriate leather and rubber attire, including an Adult Baby, two Cross-dressers and a Latex House Maid.

Some guests mingled, while others engaged in private sessions throughout the Dungeon's stations. Slave J. spent considerable time secured within his own Standing Stocks device while a female member privileged him with backside and genital corporal stimulation.

The Dungeon area is being expanded with plans for additional playrooms, including a fully equipped Medical Room, an Interrogation Room, a large Lounge Area and additional Dressing Rooms.

Sir Ed and Lady Karen engaged in a brief session using the Violet Wand. Afterwards, the device was made available to other interested members, such as Mistress Pearl, who decided to experiment with her male slave. It appeared to be a very intense experience as the slave found it difficult to remain still on his own and needed to be restrained on the rack. The Mistress used various glass attachments and also induced static shock through her fingertips, using her own body to transfer the current. This made for a very interesting spectacle.

In closing, it was another interesting and successful DFP Play Party event.

Member # 0004

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First I would like to thank our hosts Sir Ed and Lady Karen for graciously allowing us to participate in their parties. Their private dungeon is an excellent location to hold Dressing For Pleasure's play parties - small enough to have an intimate feel, but still big enough to give a lot of people plenty of room to play.

I was honored to have the priviledge to submit to Sir Ed and Lady Karen, and especially to participate in the self bondage demo where I demonstrated 3 possible self bondage ties and talked about relevant safety precautions. Sir Ed added a lot of additional helpful information on safety and also had a few clever suggestions for setting up timed releases to let yourself out of self-bondage automatically after a certain time.

Shortly thereafter Lady Karen fastened me into vertical stocks and I was ordered to remain there for the remainder of the evening. While Lady Karen was occupied elsewhere serving her Master Sir Ed, I was given permission to be used by any other members as they chose. I was glad to suffer for Lady Karen under someone else's hands.

A lady in a black skirt and a black blouse attached 2 pounds of lead to my parachute stretcher and then proceeded to use a riding crop on my chest and buttocks and also for some medium to heavy intensity CBT. She also employed a cane and a flogger in the same fashion.

I did enjoy being used by this lady member and shortly after she finished her session, my hands had to be taken out of the stocks and fastened to my sides, leaving my head in the stocks. Unfortunately shortly after that I had a back spasm and needed to get out. It was an enjoyable time while in the stocks and I'm looking forward to Lady Karen placing me in the vertical stocks again. I hope that Lady Karen was very well pleased by my submitting to her in the way that I did.

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DFP New Year Play Party of 1-21-2006

The first DFP Play Party of the New Year was the most successful event to date. 25 members were in attendance, and there was much enthusiasm and interaction among the guests.

Refreshments were provided, including soft drinks, snacks, cookies and fruit.

The Dungeon had been upgraded with the addition of new toys and bondage furniture, which included a Hog-Tie-Spreader Bar, designed and built by Slave J, and a Rota-Frame, fabricated and installed by HR Designs Limited.

An interesting mix of male and female Dominants shared the spotlights with their submissive partners as the night progressed.
The evening started with a hands-on presentation by Sir Ed and Lady Karen in the proper and safe usage of a Violet Wand. This particular device is used to cause mild to intense electrical stimulation, very much like a repetitive static-electrical shock. Lady Karen was blindfolded and secured onto the Rota-Frame, while Sir Ed touched her body with the various glass attachments that come provided with the Violet Wand unit including a rake, rod, sphere and tinsel-flogger. The initial demonstration was very informative, as well as intriguing to observe. Many of the guests came forward to try the Wand. Both Tops and bottoms appeared delighted as they shared in the giving and receiving of stimulation from this unique device.

While some members experimented with the Violet Wand, others took part in personal one-on-one sessions, some using the classic pieces of bondage furniture in the Dungeon including the Rack, St. Andrews Cross, 5 Point Pillory, Swing and Bondage Horse.

A male adult baby, dressed in pajamas, bonnet and pacifier was seated and restrained within his high chair. He was occasionally fed and pampered by a thoughtful Mistress who was in attendance.

One male slave was thumb-cuffed and genitally chained to a pole, while wearing high heels and nylons. Another male slave was locked into the pillory; his neck, wrists and ankles secured, keeping him in a bent-over position while weights dangled from his parachute.

A female submissive was lying supine on the Rack; hands stretched overhead, her legs attached to the upper limbs of the St. Andrews Cross, while her Master erotically teased her.

Members took turns using the Rota-Frame, enjoying the versatility in being able to rotate their restrained partners to different angles while playing.

A Mistress led her male slave by his genital leash into the Holding Cell to engage in a private corporal session, during which intense sounds could be occasionally heard through the walls. Afterwards they emerged and finished their session using the Rota-Frame. The slave's genital leash was attached through an eyelet in the frames baseboard to help further immobilize him. His backside was obviously reddened.

Some members were comfortable as spectators, seemingly enthralled by the activities going on. Others joined in discussions, trading stories and experiences.

In conclusion, the evening encompassed another successful DFP Play Party event.

~Member # 0004

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